don't worry about me. I have the perfect plan.
We had only planned on living in our house for 4 years. (it's 4 years now). I tell my superiors, "the only thingi keeping me here in this ward/stake, since I'd rather be closer to my work, is this calling I am in now."
I don't dress well, I don't comb my hair well, I rarely shave. It's very hard for people to trust someone that looks like me.