Personally, maybe people should just say no to callings.
I know of cases where people were passed over for callings because they were perceived as not having any time.
When I was called to be scoutmaster, I was a resident physican, with a demanding moonlighting schedule, working on a master's degree, with a small child at home and one on the way.
Maybe I should have said no. I certainly didn't spend a lot of time with my family at that point.
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