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Originally Posted by FarrahWaters
This is my guess as well.
Mike is pretty eager to have another child soon (he says, what's not to like? DTD unprotected + your breasts get bigger + you get a baby out of it-- it's a win-win-win). Also, I'm evidently not getting any younger. Since our oldest was diagnosed with some special needs, I've been delaying a new pregnancy. I'm a little afraid that I'm not equipped to adequately help with all his issues, and have an additional child right away. Is it selfish, and a needless worry? Maybe. I'm still trying to decide.
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It's also interesting to me how much of this decision rests with the mother. I don't disagree that she should choose. It probably does add to the mother guilt, though. Again, you do your best, you hope for the best. It's not selfish, IMO.