I found this to be kind of a humorous story. One of the guys in our golf group told us about growing up in Utah as a Catholic. I didn't even know he was Catholic.
Anyway when he was a kid his parents let him go to Primary with his friends in the neighborhood. During one class the teacher told the kids how lucky they were they were going to be able to be with their parents in heaven. She then when on to say this kid wouldn't because he was Catholic. He said he balled all the way home.
He grew up in Utah and still lives in Utah. He has no animosity to the church because he realizes now most members aren't that insensitive.
I asked him if it was that or just he decided he didn't care that he wouldn't be with his parents.