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fusnik11 · 08-26-2005, 03:08 PM

happened in my parents ward right before my mission.

a guy was having an affair with a women and a couple of people knew but nothing was said. it continued on for a couple of years and right after i got home the shit hit the fan.

a lady confronted her told her that he had had an affair, the ward choose sides and theyve been duking it out ever since.

my mom who is quite close to this lady asked if she was 'happy' that someone told her and she said yes. that shed rather deal with the emotional problems that followed than find out one day she has dedicated herself to a lie.

id tell your friend that his mom needs to know. i wouldnt personally tell your second mom, but the lady needs to know this has happened, both for her sake, and the sake of her family.

08-26-2005, 03:08 PM	#8
fusnik11 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 2,506	something very similar.... happened in my parents ward right before my mission. a guy was having an affair with a women and a couple of people knew but nothing was said. it continued on for a couple of years and right after i got home the shit hit the fan. a lady confronted her told her that he had had an affair, the ward choose sides and theyve been duking it out ever since. my mom who is quite close to this lady asked if she was 'happy' that someone told her and she said yes. that shed rather deal with the emotional problems that followed than find out one day she has dedicated herself to a lie. id tell your friend that his mom needs to know. i wouldnt personally tell your second mom, but the lady needs to know this has happened, both for her sake, and the sake of her family.