I would ask him if he's interested in trying to train a bit and get in better physical shape. If he says he is then I would try to train with him. In other words, as long as he is willing to put forth the effort, I would be willing to spend time with him.
If he wasn't willing to put forth the effort then I wouldn't try to tailor the activities so that they can fit him. In our scout troop growing up we had a mentally handicapped boy that we did activities with. We didn't mind talioring things to him so that everyone could participate but we didn't stop doing outdoor activities just because he wasn't able to participate. His parents would either help with the activity or drive to the campsite ahead of time while we hiked in, etc. so he could participate.
I think there is a big difference between that kid and the kid in your troop in that the kid in your troop doesn't have a physical or mental disability. I wouldn't give up on him as long as he's willing but if he isn't willing and doesn't care to participate in an outdoor or physical activity then I wouldn't lose any sleep over it.
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