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DrumNFeather · 02-02-2006, 01:40 PM

It's always an awkward subject when dating someone. Every experience is different, but in my recent experience with my Fiance, when we were dating (I know this having now talked to her about it) we were both thinking "Will I marry this person?" "What if we get married?" etc. And finally one night she just blurted it out...."Do you think we'll get married"?

Sometimes having those discussions and getting it out in the open is really the only way to live in the moment so to speak...once it is out there, you know what the potential is and you can have fun and still get to know each other without wondering what if.

At 24/25 in the LDS church, people are thinking about marraige...it is all around them and unavoidable. I know that sometimes folks don't want to bring it up because it might "scare the person off" but really, if she's into you, she probably sees it as well...so it might not be as awkward as you think.

02-02-2006, 01:40 PM	#11
DrumNFeather Active LDS Ute Fan Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Nantucket : ) Posts: 2,566	It's always an awkward subject when dating someone. Every experience is different, but in my recent experience with my Fiance, when we were dating (I know this having now talked to her about it) we were both thinking "Will I marry this person?" "What if we get married?" etc. And finally one night she just blurted it out...."Do you think we'll get married"? Sometimes having those discussions and getting it out in the open is really the only way to live in the moment so to speak...once it is out there, you know what the potential is and you can have fun and still get to know each other without wondering what if. At 24/25 in the LDS church, people are thinking about marraige...it is all around them and unavoidable. I know that sometimes folks don't want to bring it up because it might "scare the person off" but really, if she's into you, she probably sees it as well...so it might not be as awkward as you think. __________________ "It's not like we played the school of the blind out there." - Brian Johnson.