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Old 01-07-2008, 08:17 PM   #11
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Like Marsupial said, they teach that stuff at school. Maybe a good approach would be to contrast the two styles. Church doesn't teach you anything about protection and pregnancy and STD's because they teach you not to do it and have faith that you won't. Schools assume you'll do it and teach you how to protect yourself. Analyze the two approaches with your kids, maybe even with a scenario, "what if an LDS kid messes up, would it be better to use protection?"
Do they teach that at Utah high schools?
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Old 01-07-2008, 08:22 PM   #13
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Serious question. I have a 10-year-old step-daughter and a 9-year-old son. Before we know it, we're going to have to deal with the sex stuff.

As LDS members, we're all about abstinence before marriage. So, of course, we want that to be the overriding principle regarding our children's sexual relations.

However, I don't know that I want my children to be so naive about the issue that if they choose to disobey the rules about pre-marital sexual relations, they end up suffering worse consequences than necessary (i.e., pregnancy, STD's, etc.).

How do we, as LDS members who fully subscribe to the law of chastity, nevertheless deal with protection issues, without making it seem like we are giving a wink and a nod to premarital sex?
I see the key as being communication. We have "the talk" with our kids around the time they are 10. As our daughters get older I guess we will adapt to the situation, watching them like hawks and keeping the lines open. Knowing my girls, I don't think it would be too hard determine if things were starting to happen that would necessitate a more detailed discussion. My 16-year-old went on her first date two weeks ago; any talk of birth control is staill a ways off.
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put a condom on a banana
So is their really any question how to do this and do they buy small bananas so the girls are not disappointed with the real thing.
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So is their really any question how to do this and do they buy small bananas so the girls are not disappointed with the real thing.
I believe it was a plantain
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I believe it was a plantain
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