10-08-2007, 03:36 PM | #31 | |
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However, the science doesn't support the concept that children not raised by parents are developmentally harmed. Children can learn to be great students or athletes or even citizens even if they aren't raised by parents. The children may not miss out developmentally, but the parents miss out bonding with the children. That is the price some of us pay if we are absent. As a working father, I have missed out on many things because I am needed to work.
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You see it's awfully convenient to feel that way about me isn't it. It frames the world that is CougarGuard in such a way that makes sense ... but does it? What happens when I don't simply fit the part, play the role exactly as hoped or intended? |
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I think that is understandable. Every human wants to be recognized and feel included. Do you not think that the LDS Church has not taken steps to better recognize this situation? I have read articles recently in the Ensign that speak specifically to this subject and seek to make the general membership more aware of how our focus on the ideal can negatively impact those who neither have the ideal presently in their lives nor particularly want it. It is my opinion that the LDS Church is improving in that area. However, the Church is enormous and bureacratically managed by older folks. Culture and beliefs and doctrine get intertwined into a deep root set of inertia that makes change very slow. However, I think that given the limited time and the narrower focus of "General Conference" giving greater deference to the ideal should not be so offensive, and need not be interpreted at the expense of including those mentioned above. But then again, I am admittedly marginally mullah...I just wish "they" would have let Ronnie Jenkins get all his allocated "mercy" while he still had football elgibility.
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lol Which is the greater irony. This is like a great Greek tragedy. |
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Further, back to said studies, I am not sure if that metric of success captures what is trully important to religious folks, or at least to me and my wife as I try not to speak for all.
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Now, it will turn on the quality of childcare. But for my socio-economic group, that is usually not a problem.
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Have they ever mentioned in conference one of the other real problems with women who work outside the home. It heavily increases the chance for adultery. I think I have heard that a lot of marriages that break up happen because the woman falls or at least gets involved with another man at work.
Off the top of my head I can think of 5 divorces of "active" LDS couples and 3 of them were because of this. I know of a couple of others where the gal never got caught or at least they didn't get divorced. I didn't tell on them either. I do know of a sixth situation, but that involved a counselor in the Bishopric and a relief society President. She was a stay at home mom. |
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If you had women and men working long hours together away from spouse and home, the possibilities of adultery increase.
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I haven't either, but far be it for me to get in the way of Arch's smear campaign.
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