10-09-2007, 06:25 AM | #81 |
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You may be right. I'm not saying you're not. Personally, I find it icky today but I'm not willing yet to impose my impose my societal point of view on it yet. On some subjects I'm willing.
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10-09-2007, 06:28 AM | #82 |
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You think the church does that? What a crock! I've heard talks that specifically EXHORT women to get their education so that they are capable of being able to support their families should conditions require they have to earn money to provide for the family.
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10-09-2007, 06:32 AM | #83 | |
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Oaks is telling people to quit delaying reproduction and to have more children. Five of the six most recently ordained apostles have 3 or fewer kids, while 2 of the senior apostles have 10 kids. Hinckley is telling women to get as much education as possible. I think there's some serious inconsistency in the message that is being given to women from the pulpit, probably because opinions vary among GAs. What's wrong with delaying reproduction? (unless you want to have 10 kids) One of the best ways for a woman to get as much education as possible is to delay reproduction. It's actually a very responsible approach. You know as well as I do that the culture promotes early marriage and pregnancy, which is not compatible with advanced education for women. |
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10-09-2007, 06:43 AM | #84 | |
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In my case, I encouraged and supported my wife 100% in getting an education and marketable skills. I take great comfort in knowing that if anything ever happens to me that she won't be helpless. I also take great comfort in having a million dollar life insurance policy. A million dollars doesn't go far nowadays, but it'll help. She could get a smaller house and not have to work until the youngest graduated high school. I have the same policy on her. If something happened to her, my children would still have a parent. They'd just eat more stuff out of the microwave. Anyways, it's late. See you all later. Go Cougs! |
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10-09-2007, 01:19 PM | #85 | |
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I've heard many women complaining, "Well she doesn't have to work but chooses to so that they can have that neat stuff." Placing this limitation almost invites people to judge if a woman works because it brings fulfillment or if she needs to work.
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10-09-2007, 02:47 PM | #87 | |
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We have a pretty big house. We can afford it, so we bought one we like. If our circumstances change, we would adjust our desire for a nice house to fit our budget. If she (or I) had to choose between a lesser house and taking care of our kids, it's a no brainer. The kids win. And what's wrong with judging? |
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10-09-2007, 03:15 PM | #89 |
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You're a serious asshole. I've not judged anyone for putting their kids in daycare. You won't find anything close to it in any thread. You won't find it because I don't believe it. I didn't pull out my tax returns to show I'm better than someone else. That's truly disgusting.
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10-09-2007, 03:18 PM | #90 |
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I'm an open book. As you see. Everyone knows who I am. It's easy for me because I don't hold any radical or perverse or racist or sexist views.
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