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06-12-2006, 03:48 AM | #11 | |
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Whereas people denied recommends, usually need a cover story to conceal other matters. Theoretically both are possible, but if I had to choose between a bishop and somebody denied a recommend, I'd place my bets with the bishop. I could err, but knowing nothing else, I'd bet I'd come out on top more than the other way. I've rarely met somebody who didn't receive what they wanted from a bishop, who wasn't a little bit bitter or resentful.
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06-12-2006, 04:17 AM | #13 | |
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I once had a bishop make what was obviously the most bone headed decision I had ever seen. It was a hard pill to swallow. It had to do with a family member and it took a whole lot of lip biting on my part to keep from badmouthing the guy. In the end the bishop was released and the next bishop did the exact opposite. It was hard not to hold it against the ex-bishop but (other than a few years of frustration) it never cost us anything. We could have gone either way... I wonder what would have happened to our family if we had not bit the bullet and decided to try to stick it to that bishop... My attitude was that if he was wrong it was his problem and I'd let him deal with it. We'll have to wait and see if anything ever come of it... For now it worked itself out...
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06-12-2006, 08:47 PM | #14 | |
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People like that who share this kind of information typically aren't telling the entire story, seek what many women call "validation" and have ulterior motives. This guy's form of storytelling is akin to half truth's that the anti's or the "intellectuals" like to put on things, just so it fits the paradigm of their argument. Sophistry is alive and well in many forms.
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06-12-2006, 09:06 PM | #15 |
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I don't understand why people gripe and complain about stuff like this. Look dude, you are a member of a conservative fundamentalist church. This kind of stuff happens, and it is tacitly sanctioned from the top of the church because of the hierarchical nature of the system. What did you expect?
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06-12-2006, 09:16 PM | #16 | |
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I have to disagree with you here. This kind of stuff is not "tacitly sanctioned" by virtue of a heirarchical system. Church authorities recognize that bishops and stake presidents are prone to error. They are a lay clergy, for heaven's sake. They will blow some calls. When they do, the fact that they are part of a heirarchical system does not validate the errors. There is a built in appeal system for exactly this kind of problem. He should take the issue to the stake president, and then to an area authority if necessary. The fact that an appeal system exists is proof that such errors are not "tacitly sanctioned." I would also say he is a member of a conservative church, not a conservative fundamentalist church. "Fundamentalist" carries a lot of baggage with it in today's nomenclature that isn't accurate to apply to the church organization. |
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06-12-2006, 09:37 PM | #17 | |
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I took the call. "Your companion says that the elders in your apartment are at a party tonight. Is that the case?" I explained to the mission president everything that was going on. He said, "You were called as the leader of your zone. I trust that you would not allow your missionaries to be in a compromising situation. Please tell your companion what I just told you. Good night elder finderson." I told him. He was pissed. I went back to the party. Anyhow, this wasn't the first time that I have seen that kind of logic take place. People at the top usually defer to local leaders, even if the local leaders are 'breaking mission rules.' Sure, there may be a system of appeals, but I would bet that it would often work out like the example of my mission president and greeny. When I talk about a hierarchical system, I don't necessarily mean a top-heavy system (though it can often be that as well). As for the issue of 'fundamentalist or not,' I will tell you this -- if the term 'Christian fundamentalist' has meaning, then LDS are fundamentalists as well. That, rather than the suicide bomber vein, is the meaning I was suggesting. You might not like the term, but if you were to ask the man-on-the-street, "Is Mormonism a fundamentalist religion?" I would bet that you would get more yes votes than not. Last edited by Robin; 06-12-2006 at 10:23 PM. |
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06-12-2006, 09:48 PM | #18 |
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An elder didn't like the idea of being at the farewell party, and instead of telling you so directly, he called daddy and hid behind him?
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I renewed my recommend just last week and the conversation went almost the same with my Bishop and Stake President. When asked if I sustained the GA's I said something like, "I prayed and pondered about the suggestion to contact my Senators about the Marriage Ammendment and felt right about not doing so."
My Bishop said "You aren't the only one and I've never heard that you have to agree on everything to sustain leaders. I've certainly had my share of disagreements over the years. Just please don't make an issue of it at Church." My Stake President made me a little nervous because he continued with the questions and then returned to the Marriage Ammendment issue at the end. But at the end he said, "I'm glad you trust me enough to talk with me about this. I believe you are keeping your covenants and am not reticent to sign your recommend." And he did. As to whether or not the Church is fundamentalist, I will say this: There are fundamentalist as well as intellectual tendencies in the Church. Strictly speaking, Christian fundamentalism crystallized in the 18th and early 19th centuries in formal and sometimes denominational conflicts. Fundamentalists were those who believed reason was corrupted as it is a faculty of man and man's nature is fallen. More intellectual groups continued to find reason fruitful. I can suggest articles on this subject if anyone's interested. Missions tend to the fundamentalist side, but I was fortunate to have a Mission President who understood me. He even discussed with me what I was reading and seemed to enjoy our conversations.
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That said, your story and the story cited in this thread are apples and oranges (assuming the story in the thread is true). In your story, the issue involved a fairly minor matter on which trusting leadership was an easy thing to do. In an ecclesiastical punishment case, I think the point of getting things right is more critical than trusting leadership. As a result, a higher degree of scrutiny is called for. |
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