11-12-2009, 07:44 PM | #11 |
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You're being very vague today. As was noted earlier, people with SSA are welcome to have full fellowship in the church so long as they remain chaste.
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I have mentioned my own brother, who was fully active, an RM, a believer. He discussed his struggle with a bishop over the course of years, and decided he had to choose a path of foreclosing all prospects of love and companionship with a partner or to choose to pursue those things. He was ex'd. The disciplinary council, as I understand it was not based on discussions of his chastity. And he remained active for a while after the ex. Seems like maybe a year or so. Your continual suggestion that this choice is merely about sex is reductive, especially given the emphasis this church places on spousal relationships, which include far more than sex. |
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11-13-2009, 12:42 AM | #14 |
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What if your brother and his partner started attending church?
It would be interesting to hear how his ward would react to that. |
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When they visit me, they go to church with me. If they went to their own ward together. . . yeah, I think that would be interesting. |
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I'm trying to imagine, let's say he contacted a Bishop beforehand, and said "I'm planning on showing up, I'm ex'd, I'm a believer, I am respectful, I'm not hear to cause trouble." What would be the reaction of the average Bishop? Say the Bishop asks him to attend. To which your brother replies, "Is there a ward that I *could* attend?" Of course, Bishop can't answer for every ward. So Bishop kicks it over to the Stake President and the High Council. I'm trying to imagine what that conversation would be like with the Stake Presidency. Is it possible they would ask him to attend? Would the stake president ask for a "volunteer" ward? Would the stake president tell the refusing Bishop to allow him to attend? And what if there is a Mike Waters on the High Council? Hmmm.....such interesting scenarios. If you are a single gay guy, I don't think many people care. But a dapper gay couple, tongues might wag. |
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About your last sentence: in this church, people are not disciplined by leadership for desires. People are disciplined for behavior.
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