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Old 09-21-2007, 02:40 PM   #21
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I know cases where a dad beating the shit out of his kid helped him too. I don't say that totally sarcastically, either, because as a parent or as a church leader sometimes you really are exasperated on what to do.

Yes, I do think it can be violent. I don't think it's right, at least how it is applied today. Though, it's becoming less frequent and trending the right direction.
OK, I was thinking in the context of the original question and excommunication being an act of love. I guess a violent act can be an act of love.
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Old 09-21-2007, 02:44 PM   #22
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OK, I was thinking in the context of the original question and excommunication being an act of love. I guess a violent act can be an act of love.
Did you bring your leather, whip and chain? I understand S&M practitioners are great lovers.
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OK, I was thinking in the context of the original question and excommunication being an act of love. I guess a violent act can be an act of love.
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How often does the church seek out extremely inactive members, get the scoop on what sins they're committing and then excommunicate them? In my experience, essentially never.

I see the purpose of excommunication as primarily two-fold:

1. To prevent those from participating in the church that are actively trying to participate.

2. To provide a path whereby they can return into the good graces of the church and once again participate in the church.

Is that motivated by "love"? I think it often is ONE of the motivations.
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Old 09-21-2007, 02:48 PM   #25
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How often does the church seek out extremely inactive members, get the scoop on what sins they're committing and then excommunicate them? In my experience, essentially never.

I see the purpose of excommunication as primarily two-fold:

1. To prevent those from participating in the church that are actively trying to participate.

2. To provide a path whereby they can return into the good graces of the church and once again participate in the church.

Is that motivated by "love"? I think it often is ONE of the motivations.
when Jefe has doled out the full santos and when I have doled out (just once) the full finderson, trust me, it is not motivated by love.
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when Jefe has doled out the full santos and when I have doled out (just once) the full finderson, trust me, it is not motivated by love.
You're comparing CB and CG to church discipline?
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You're comparing CB and CG to church discipline?
I am saying that protection of the community is usually the number one reason that people are kicked out of communities.
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Who carried out the "flood order"?
It never happened, so God gets a pass on this one.
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Old 09-21-2007, 02:52 PM   #29
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I am saying that protection of the community is usually the number one reason that people are kicked out of communities.
Well, I think that was more or less captured in reason #1 that I stated above.
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I am saying that protection of the community is usually the number one reason that people are kicked out of communities.
Exactly. How could you keep discipline without it.

Take the honor code at BYU, I know Indy I'm obsessed, that honor code is there and it's enforcement is to control the community (students). No other reason.
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