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01-04-2006, 03:39 AM | #12 | |
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01-04-2006, 05:22 AM | #13 |
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In my immediate family we are all active members of the church. Outside my siblings and parents however the activity is very little. I have a grandfather who has been excommunicated twice and an uncle who also has been excommunicated. A few others have had various degrees of church discipline and of those only one is active and has had his priesthood blessings restored.
I have tried to talk to my family on occasion, and what I have told them is that no matter the reasoning for their inactivity, that does not change the fact that Joseph Smith saw God the Father and Jesus Christ and that the Book of Mormon is the word of God(although there seems to be some debate about the veracity of these two statements, but I hold them to be true). Look I'm sorry that you've been offended by sister so-and-so and she still hasn't apologized, but that doesn't change the principles of salvation contained in the gospel, etc. It varies with each circumstance but you get the idea. BTW, it hasn't worked but at least my uncle agreed with me and shared with me his testimony which was surprisingly powerful for someone who has been away from the church for 20+ years.
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01-04-2006, 06:23 AM | #14 |
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I've had a number of personal trials in the past 12 months that have tested and are testing my faith and made me question some things.
I could list a lot of them in detail, but I'll refrain from doing so because I just don't feel it would appropriate in such a public forum. Suffice it to say, that I found out that challenging the Lord and shaking our fist at the Almighty when things don't go our way,,,,,even when we think we're doing what He's asking of us... does nothing but serve to plant seeds of anger, bitterness and ultimately dis-content...and that is the very path which the Adversary wants us to go down. The lower we get the more he loves it. I haven't gone inactive in the church, but there are times where I've felt out of place and not sure where I belonged. Being a 30+ LDS Single guy,,,,I don't feel comfortable in my family ward and the 31-45 Singles Ward is one giant freak show of bitterness where Triumph The Insult Comic Dog could have a field day. I'm now working harder on what I perceive as MY weaknesses. I made the mistake of fearing Man more than God and through constant prayer, deep reflection and being kind to others...only then am I learning what I'm having to learn...even if it sometimes still gets me upset. Not sure if that made sense, but I hope it helps. |
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01-04-2006, 06:47 AM | #16 |
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I have to agree with mpfunk & SteelBlue on this one. It is extremely likely that all of these things would have happened even if they had not been going to the church at the time. I don't think that the Lord suddenly gave the father congestive heart failure because the family started going back to church(although I don't pretent to know the mind of God, either). It almost sounds superstitious to me, to be honest. Kind of like, 'The big sale is never going on when I go to the store so I'll just send my sister to check things out from now on.'
Now, before anyone starts screaming at me, I do believe that the Lord tests people sometimes. Then again, sometimes things happen in the normal course of living our lives. Sometimes SEVERAL bad things happen in a short period of time. Its easy to blame them on wickedness or trials sent by the Lord but the truth is that sometimes life is just out of our control. Yeah, I know, its easy for me to say these things because its not happening to me but nevertheless that's how I feel it often is. |
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A few nights ago I watched a documentary about the 12/04 tsunami, on the discovery channel. They interviewed a young Sumateran boy, who told of his experience. As the waters were rushing in and people's families and homes were being swept away, he said he felt it was the judgement of God cleansing the land.
Perhaps when misfortune and tragedies strike, the fear/blame of God is a uniform feeling that all cultures unite on. |
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Good things happen: there is a God. Bad things happen: there isn't. Good things happen: they would have happened anyway. Bad things happen: God must be testing me. It's all the same and, IMHO, it's all wrong; it seems like most things happen or don't due to statistical probability. Statistical probability is part of the laws of nature, stuff that God doesn't transgress too often anyway. Assigning meaning after the fact doesn't mean there was any meaning there to begin with. Pioneering deist Mormonism, o
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