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Old 10-25-2007, 02:30 AM   #1
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go to a Halloween party at his friend's church on a Sunday night?

We just had our ward Halloween party tonight. We invited one of my son's friends from school. I picked him up and when I brought him home his dad invited my son to go with them to their church party on Sunday. Normally we wouldn't do that type of thing on Sunday, but I don't want to be rude or come across like we're too good for their actvity or something. He's a single dad and we've had his kid over to play a few times. I think he'd really like the opportunity to reciprocate. I don't know. What would you do?
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Old 10-25-2007, 02:40 AM   #2
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I'd allow it just because the kid's dad invited your son. I see nothing wrong with it. The other boy's dad is including your son, just as you included his son.
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As long as none of the kids wear pajamas to the party I see nothing wrong with it.
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I would allow it, but might include a gentle reminder, that you're greatly honored and your son will look forward to it, especially because he isn't ordinarily allowed to do it on Sunday.
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go to a Halloween party at his friend's church on a Sunday night?

We just had our ward Halloween party tonight. We invited one of my son's friends from school. I picked him up and when I brought him home his dad invited my son to go with them to their church party on Sunday. Normally we wouldn't do that type of thing on Sunday, but I don't want to be rude or come across like we're too good for their actvity or something. He's a single dad and we've had his kid over to play a few times. I think he'd really like the opportunity to reciprocate. I don't know. What would you do?
Of course! You know what kind of a jerk you would look like if you didn't? His son came to your ward's party, so return the favor. No brainer.
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I would allow it, but might include a gentle reminder, that you're greatly honored and your son will look forward to it, especially because he isn't ordinarily allowed to do it on Sunday.
This is a pretty good approach. More important is that your son understands that it's an exception, than the dad.
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I would allow it, but might include a gentle reminder, that you're greatly honored and your son will look forward to it, especially because he isn't ordinarily allowed to do it on Sunday.
I agree with Arch on this one.
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Old 10-25-2007, 08:16 PM   #8
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That's a tough one. We generally have a "No Parties on Sunday!" rule, but there will always be exceptions. This sounds like a good one.

YOhio makes a good point on the pajamas.
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Old 10-29-2007, 01:26 AM   #9
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Default Well, we decided to let him go

And he had fun and I'm glad he went. Thanks for the advice.
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go to a Halloween party at his friend's church on a Sunday night?

We just had our ward Halloween party tonight. We invited one of my son's friends from school. I picked him up and when I brought him home his dad invited my son to go with them to their church party on Sunday. Normally we wouldn't do that type of thing on Sunday, but I don't want to be rude or come across like we're too good for their actvity or something. He's a single dad and we've had his kid over to play a few times. I think he'd really like the opportunity to reciprocate. I don't know. What would you do?
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